I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

12 06 2007

Brought to you by ONE 

I came across this touching story, I don’t like to do the copy paste thingie, but this one brought tears to my eyes. It’s really ironic how sometimes we lack the courage and thus we might end up regretting our whole life, and when we get the right chance; it might be too late.

10th grade

As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so called “best friend”. I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn’t notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before and I handed them to her. She said “thanks” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I wanted to tell her, I wanted her to know that I didn’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

11th grade

The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broken her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn’t want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said “thanks” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I wanted to tell her, I wanted her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

Senior year

The day before prom she walked to my locker. My date is sick” she said; he’s not going to go well, I didn’t have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together as “best friends”. So we did. Prom night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step. I stared at her as she smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn’t think of me like that, and I knew it. Then she said “I had the best time, thanks!” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I wanted to tell her, I wanted her to know that I didn’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

Graduation Day

A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn’t notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and cried as I hugged her. Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said, “you’re my best friend, thanks” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I wanted to tell her, I wanted her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.

A Few Years Later

Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting married. I watched her say “I do” and drive off to her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn’t see me like that, and I knew it. Before she drove away, she came to me and said “you came! Thanks!” and she kissed me on the cheek. I wanted to tell her, I wanted her to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love her but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why.


Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my “best friend”. At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: I stare at him wishing he was mine, but he doesn’t notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don’t want to be just friends, I love him but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me! `I wish I did too…` I thought to my self, and I cried.



59 responses

13 06 2007

AWWW… so touching

22 12 2010

tearjerker… i luv it…

16 11 2011

i counldn’t even believe this i cryed so much this is so touching ill think ill keep this for me and bf i had the same promble 😥

11 12 2012


13 06 2007

Nice one, One 😛 But NOT touching 😐

First off, he’s such a coward 🙄 What was he waiting for? It’s a well known fact that girls shouldn’t take the first step! Bistahal! I’m glad she moved on and got married! 👿

23 10 2011

He could of gotten some pussy

13 06 2007
Abed Hamdan

I’ve read it before, It’s touching indeed.

I don’t know why people are so afraid of rejection ??

What will happen if she/he said no ??

Life’s too short, and we should fight for our dreams, or else we don’t deserve them.

12 07 2008

ooh man that was very hard. you are very patient becoz she gaves to u all that kisses and time but u didnt do anything !!!!! however this was a lesson 4 me, thank u 4 posting

19 07 2008

This touched me very much brought a tear to my eye
People are scared of rejection but what would happen if she said no.
No big deal, but it true people are scared of it , thats why love is soo sad 😦
Ita big thing 😥

12 08 2008

Thats a bit like me, i know someone.. we talk a bit and i realy wanna tell i just ..cant

15 08 2014

learn a lesson from this story just go and tell him/her

21 08 2008

even after reading the story am still afraid…..

24 08 2008

Actually i love her very much and i wish her to be my wife in the future, i will be honored if i married her, she is open minded, simple, beautiful.

I state it here : I LOVE YOU D

27 10 2008


2 05 2009

It’s just my story, i would like to tell him that i love him but .. i’m too shy, afraid. xo

5 06 2009

Nice story, continue..

24 04 2010

ma doesssssss

16 07 2010

I love my friend. We are studying together since kindergarten. But i cant tell her that i love her very much. Because if she refuse, then i know, our friendship will be the same as before.

16 07 2010

Add never in front of friendship

8 11 2010

This happened to me 2. second and even third time reading this it reminded of that one special person. took me a while to ask her out and she said yes (claps to self),but then we started talking and i figured out that 1) i liked her and was afraid to get rejected and 2) she liked me and she thought i was only her close friend. so it all worked out

9 11 2010

I told my best-friend that I liked her a lot and that I wanted to be more than friends. It didn’t end well. We don’t talk anymore, that’s why people are afraid of rejection.

22 12 2010

she thinks m a best frnd too… i dnt wanna break it… 😦

1 06 2011

I’m in the same situation 😦 i’m just too shy to go up to her and tell her i love her i hate this dreadful and painful disease today was our dance i was gonna ask her out but we only danced to a real slow song i wanted to do it right then and their but i didn’t she hugged me and said thanks for everything

18 06 2011

damn ive been wanting to ask this girl out since 5th grade and im shy now im going to be a senior and i stilll havent asked her, scared of rejection im just shy, fuck it, this shy bs is over in the starting of the year ill ask her out no matter how hard it will be, its been 5 years already and i know she likes me..

16 08 2011

Wow, this is like me, and i know she likes me aswell, I just dont know how to say it….. (rude Word)

14 09 2011

i have this really cute girl in my biology class, and today we had a big project and i wanted her to be my partner but i was so shy, waiting to ask her.

and i went fuck it, this shit’s gonna stop it ruined a few relationships and i wasn’t letting this one go. ans she said yes, hope it all works out.

14 09 2011

Oh I should’ve clicked the ‘Reply’ button, anyway all the best to you!

14 09 2011

hello there James, all the best to you!

6 10 2011

I’ve loved him since I was 15 but was to painfully shy to tell him. He was my best friend and always made me feel so safe. We lost contact for many years and I would think of him often. Was he married? Did he have children? Was he happy? When I finally saw him again all of those feelings came back tenfold. This time I’m not going to be shy. I told him that I was crazy in love with him. I’ve changed so much since I was that young girl. I see him stare at me from the corner of my eye. When I look into his eyes and I know he feels for me and I wish so much that he would tell me something, anything. I was the shy one so long ago and never felt good enough for him. Now it is he who thinks that and it is just so untrue. He is my everything and the love I feel for him transcends my being and soul…

8 10 2011
Sarah Azif

FelixGoodman U must Click Their Reply Button now !!!
Hey Guys !!This Is the Time …
life is Once n only Once …So ,Go for it,give it a try once at least ,for the sake ov love ov ur life..
Dont afraid ov Rejection ..plzzzzzzzzzzz plzz plzz…
em sure she/he is Also Waiting for u …

25 10 2011

After reading the whole comment thread, it reminded me of my small story too.
I don’t know whether it was my crush or love, but yes, i was flattened by her single look, in 8th grade.
That time I Don’t have enough Guts to say it…
So it ended after the school finished..!

Though it’s still the most cherish-able & nerve-soothing moment for me 🙂 🙂

So, go and Say it..!! ❤ ❤
All the best…

9 04 2012

I say u wont know until you find out,it does not matter weather she or he rejects you,so long as you have expressed your feelings then it is fine

22 04 2012
Lanre shittu

That’s kinda bad, ‎B̲̅ƱƮ @least U̶̲̥̅̊ love her nd she loves in return

26 05 2012

i love smone her name is kritika she also started lv me and she said we continue our relationship after this year in collage
my opinion is that dont be a cowerd be a man and go forward this can change ur life

28 07 2012

Always when i am quite alone a girl in my class always approach me, but feel shy to talk to her why.is there any body there to help me

13 08 2012

It’s so intresting, i love it.

13 08 2012

Wow! So intresting.

18 09 2012

wow is to interesting

2 10 2012

This is sooo sad, I got tears in my eyes because I am in the same situation right now.

3 10 2012

Whoaw what a sad story. Love z jst one difficult

30 10 2012

pls i am in the same dilema , help me

31 12 2012
what do i do

what if its someone you have to work side by side with every day and shes a shy type and im very out going and honest and we got talking about how i am a home body and she says i need to find a girl with kids that cant be going out every night and she has 2 kids of her own and when i asked if she was implying something she just said no and turned bright red and being that shes quite and shy i dont know how to read her but want to be with her just dont want he to now feel the same and make working with ehr every day very wierd

1 11 2015

I know it sounds dumb, but if you’re desperate enough, you should try to write all of your feelings to her, like you just did. It can make her realize how much you really love her and how great you really are, right now she probably just another regular person

14 02 2013
yasser h.bichi

This is true my best friend is a girl i lv her and she lvs me too. But we are both shy . We are waiting for the right moment

21 03 2013

This is kind of like me i like a very close freind that i have known since 2nd grade and loved since 5th grade im now in 10th grade and im stil to shy to make a move.

21 03 2013

We got a lot to learn on this story hey… We only have one chance to live and life is too short to come up with regrets…
This made me feel so brave…

9 05 2013

Wow. it just shows that sometimes you have to take a leap of faith to find your happy ending.

27 06 2013

This is a very moving story it really tugs at my heart and soul knowing I made mistakes and I reaping what I sowed. I can only pray to God for a miracle and ask for his guidance. I cannot erase the past nor can I change the course of events that led to this. As I struggle to keep going on I look for the day when God can make a way where there is no way .

18 08 2013

Where did this story come from? This is the type of phase I am in, however I can’t even speak to the girl I love and when she does speak to me I don’t know is he is giving me subtle hints.

1 07 2014
felicia roland

My name is Felicia Roland, from ITALY I never believed in

love spells or magic until I met this spell caster once

when I went to Africa in February this year on a business

summit. I meant a man who’s name is Dr Isaac he is

really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back

one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell

or spell for a good job or luck spell.I’m now happy & a

living testimony because the man I had wanted to marry

left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside

down because our relationship has been on for 6years. I

really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had

no good paying job. So when I met this spell caster, I

told him what happened and explained the situation of

things to him. At first I was undecided, skeptical and

doubtful, but I just gave it a try. And in 7 days when I

returned to Italy, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by

himself and came to me apologizing that everything had

been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job

interview so we should get married. I didn’t believe it

because the spell caster only asked for my name and my

boyfriends name and all I wanted him to do. Well we are

happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,

and my husband also got the new job and our lives became

much better. His email is drisaachelpcenter@gmail.com

28 07 2014
Terrell Parkins

My story is somewhat different.We were together once,but I failed to commit.it’s over now and ironically it’s now that my love for her is strongest.In actuality,though,could there ever again be an “us”.A question I know might never be answered to my satisfaction in the absence of effort on my part.The unwavering effort needed to,if even for a moment,suppress my cowardice nature and get back my woman;to finally say I Love You.Wish me luck.

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25 01 2015
frank doria

I was in high school and fell for a girl but we never spoke. I hesitated and now I am 50 and single, never married as she was the one. I recently found out she is married and living close by. I don’t know if I should contact her = I really want to. I am trying to predict how she would react. Would a woman freak out or be flattered. Thanks.

3 10 2015

I Love This Story.It Almost Made Me Cry.

1 11 2015

Wow. I’m 17 and I’m a big guy and I’m the type of guy that laughs at horror movies and calls people gay for no reason. I always laugh at the thought of romantic things, but recently I fell in love with a girl in my class. I’ve only ever said 3 words to her and I doubt that she has ever noticed my presence. But I love her so much. I love her beautiful brown her, her natural face, her cute voice and her comforting and guillable personality. But I’m extreeeeeeeeeeeemely shy and I don’t think I will ever even have a full conversation with her. She seems a bit shy and awkward, which is why I love her even more. I tried to think of her flaws so That i could stop this love, but there is absolutely nothing I hate about her. I wish I didn’t have friends and I wish I didn’t know anyone in my class so that i could talk to her without being embarrassed.

Is there anyone else out there like me? Can someone give me some words to cheer me up or any advice for the future?

My only hope is that once I graduate this year in 8 months, she will still be here and she will still be available, and by some chance, I hope that she likes me. I have her on Facebook, But for all I know, she doesn’t know I exist.

1 11 2015

In the past I’ve loved girls based on primarily their looks. But this is different. When I thought of them I thought of us kissing etc. but this girl, nothing sexual or intimate comes to mind. All I want to do is spend time with her, cuddle and just be very close and happy together, I want to know if she likes me at all. Is there any way I can found out if she likes me? Any signs or tiny indications during a small conversation about anything? Just the thought of her being with another person makes my stomach ache

20 07 2016
Dolan Trumpet

I think im following the same path

31 12 2017

Well that’s patheticly bad at making any sense ? Why would she marry someone if she has her best friend by her side ???? If he Had not had a gf since he’s known you then using it obvious it’s YOUYUUUUU

13 02 2019

Think this was destined for me,so so touching

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